When Lightning Strikes Twice, Choose Love

Advice from a Reluctant Death Doula

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My niece, a Methodist minister, asked me a few months after my husband Kim passed away, leaving me a widow for the second time, if I wanted to join a grief group at her church. I considered it for a blip before deciding no. I’d been through grief before. I was a pro. Plus, who wants to be in a grief group with a twice widow? Who…